Filed under: Life
How far will you be willing to go before you give up..was a question i asked myself recently.
Exactly what constitutes being a good friend? In my definition, a good friend is someone who believes that there is still some good left in me when everyone else thinks otherwise.
Someone who won’t abandon me. Someone who knows that this is just a rough patch. Someone who sticks around when everyone else has gone.
Yet, it is truly difficult to find someone like this.
I’m in a dilemma now.
Someone that I’ve known for a long, long time has been very, very irresponsible and has done me a big disservice. I’m torn between believing in the good in him (i.e. he had a perfect plausible and legit explanation) and awful thought that i’m just another convenient tool to help him out of trouble.
Filed under: MEOW!
how ironic tt the person who commented that i am a lousy judge of a person’s character turned out to be a person of poor character himself.
I wont ever be anybody’s surety anymore. Am so thoroughly disappointed.
Only good thg is tt im able to entertain myself with my phone..thank god for mobile wifi.
Filed under: Life
So, we’re now 14 days into 2009. ‘The days just seem to whizz by.
Had to do a business/personal development and planning exercise recently…and you know what, despite it having been a tumultaneous year for me, I’d daresay that 2008 has been one of the best years of my life so far.
2008 will stand out as one of those years in my life that I will actually remember. My personal growth in the last one year has by far exceeded my growth in the previous 5 nondescript years put together!
I will remember 2008 as the year that I:
- Realized that chemistry is not the most important thing in a relationship.
- Took the plunge to join the financial industry (i would previously avoid insurance agents and financial planning like the plague)
- Survived 6 months without pay and with less than $5K in the bank.
- Discovered the power of self-belief.
- Set goals that I actually intend to follow through.
- Matured from a kidult to an adult.
2008 hasn’t been a bed of roses…but i’m happy with the choices that I have made and am proud with what I have done with my year.
Have you looked back at your 2008? What are some of the things you are particularly proud of? What are some of the things you would like to change? Did you discover anything new about yourself in the last year?
If 2008 has just passed you by without you knowing it (i.e. u had answered “no” to all the questions above), make sure you make 2009 something good you can look back on in the following year.
Best wishes for the rest of the 351 days everyone! 
