Excuse me, but my life is waiting.

check out this site www.nobodyhere.com !!!

It’s so nice. I wish i could do up a page like that.

I think i’m screwed up. I also think i have led a really screwed up life. Emotionally, that is. How? Well, i’ll get to that part in good time. Anyway…

I was reading my friend’s blog yday..and came across this particular post that had something to do with backstabbing. She also asked how hypocrites could sleep at night for saying untrue and nasty things about other people.

First and foremost, i fully sympathize with my friend. Because i live such a screwed up life, I’m sure that there’s alot of stuff that i am sure is circulating around about me (which i, fortunately, have yet to find out) of which i am also sure isn’t really very pleasant at all. But then again, I ask myself…if i had led my life in another way (and by that i mean the little miss goody-two-shoes way), would there be less to go around for the gossip mongers?

Now, I have no idea what has been said about my friend..and i am not defending anybody here nor am i supporting any particular claim against my friend (yes, i decided putting up disclaimers are generally a good idea.) but i am of the opinion that generally what goes around comes around. If it isn’t true then there’s no point being so bothered by it. You’re just wasting energy chasing down rubbish. Besides, your true friends will know what’s real and what isn’t. If they can’t tell…then what sort of friends are they? Get rid of them!

If you are worried about what your future friends think of you, then seriously…why make friends with people who have an ear glued to the grapevine all the time and who don’t take the time to ascertain the facts?

We don’t need a multitude of casual aquaintences. What we really need is just a handful of true friends. I’m glad to say that i have found mine. You guys know who you are.

In my humble opinion, it is the easiest to laugh off and ignore the untrue bad stuff said about you. What is really really much harder is to swallow the bad stuff that you really did when it hits you in the face. It’s quite hard to deny something when your face turns red because you are guilty you know. At least i haven’t mastered the trick yet. Pointers, anyone? I’m just awaiting the day that all my dark secrets come tumbling out of my closet.

Anyway, as i was saying…i lead a really screwed up life. Academically wise, i think i’ve done fairly well. At least i’m graduating with a degree this semester. Unfortunately, everytime i think back about what i have done in the past (and some of the stuff i am doing now), i can’t help but cringe. And the worst part is, i don’t really think i am any the wiser for it either. Shit.

It’s really difficult to move on into the future when the past keeps pestering you, you know.

check out this site www.nobodyhere.com !!!

It’s so nice. I wish i could do up a page like that.

finally i can have a break between my papers…ahhhhh.

I met up with esther to supposedly buy shoes for my trip to taiwan…but the dear girl forgot that she had a driving lesson..so i was abandoned and left to my own devices in her room.

As a result of extreme boredom (and upon her recommendation and assurance that it would be really funny), i found myself at steven lim’s homepage.

Okay..i know. Singapore idol has long past but it is only now that i realise that steven lim has a webpage of his own. And it is hilarious.

I won’t be a spoiler. Do go check it out if u are in dire need for a laugh.

Ciao.

I think i’m screwed up. I also think i have led a really screwed up life. Emotionally, that is. How? Well, i’ll get to that part in good time. Anyway…

I was reading my friend’s blog yday..and came across this particular post that had something to do with backstabbing. She also asked how hypocrites could sleep at night for saying untrue and nasty things about other people.

First and foremost, i fully sympathize with my friend. Because i live such a screwed up life, I’m sure that there’s alot of stuff that i am sure is circulating around about me (which i, fortunately, have yet to find out) of which i am also sure isn’t really very pleasant at all. But then again, I ask myself…if i had led my life in another way (and by that i mean the little miss goody-two-shoes way), would there be less to go around for the gossip mongers?

Now, I have no idea what has been said about my friend..and i am not defending anybody here nor am i supporting any particular claim against my friend (yes, i decided putting up disclaimers are generally a good idea.) but i am of the opinion that generally what goes around comes around. If it isn’t true then there’s no point being so bothered by it. You’re just wasting energy chasing down rubbish. Besides, your true friends will know what’s real and what isn’t. If they can’t tell…then what sort of friends are they? Get rid of them!

If you are worried about what your future friends think of you, then seriously…why make friends with people who have an ear glued to the grapevine all the time and who don’t take the time to ascertain the facts?

We don’t need a multitude of casual aquaintences. What we really need is just a handful of true friends. I’m glad to say that i have found mine. You guys know who you are.

In my humble opinion, it is the easiest to laugh off and ignore the untrue bad stuff said about you. What is really really much harder is to swallow the bad stuff that you really did when it hits you in the face. It’s quite hard to deny something when your face turns red because you are guilty you know. At least i haven’t mastered the trick yet. Pointers, anyone? I’m just awaiting the day that all my dark secrets come tumbling out of my closet.

Anyway, as i was saying…i lead a really screwed up life. Academically wise, i think i’ve done fairly well. At least i’m graduating with a degree this semester. Unfortunately, everytime i think back about what i have done in the past (and some of the stuff i am doing now), i can’t help but cringe. And the worst part is, i don’t really think i am any the wiser for it either. Shit.

It’s really difficult to move on into the future when the past keeps pestering you, you know.

finally i can have a break between my papers…ahhhhh.

I met up with esther to supposedly buy shoes for my trip to taiwan…but the dear girl forgot that she had a driving lesson..so i was abandoned and left to my own devices in her room.

As a result of extreme boredom (and upon her recommendation and assurance that it would be really funny), i found myself at steven lim’s homepage.

Okay..i know. Singapore idol has long past but it is only now that i realise that steven lim has a webpage of his own. And it is hilarious.

I won’t be a spoiler. Do go check it out if u are in dire need for a laugh.

Ciao.

i was just browsing through a past copy of fhm and came across this article teaching men how to pleasure women. After reading through it, I decided that most of the advice given was really good. In fact, it was spot on. I think fhm employs women writers for such articles.

Anyway, I thought that it was interesting that although fhm dispenses alot of such information in its magazines and lots of guys read fhm, it remains a fact that most men are poor lovers. Hmmz…evidently you guys are not applying what you read. Read more. Now.

After thinking about this somemore, i realised that women’s magazines seldom talk about such issues. It’s always about relationships..how to dump the guy, how to forget the jerk..and blah blah blah. How come there’s nothing about how to make your guy happy in the department downstairs??? There is just limited information about how to turn your guy on. Now don’t get me wrong, im no closet pervert but i ain’t miss holy innocent either.

Or are men just so easy to manipulate that we dun need help? wahahaha.

Sorry, i think being stuck at home because of the exams is driving me mad. I apologise.

i was just browsing through a past copy of fhm and came across this article teaching men how to pleasure women. After reading through it, I decided that most of the advice given was really good. In fact, it was spot on. I think fhm employs women writers for such articles.

Anyway, I thought that it was interesting that although fhm dispenses alot of such information in its magazines and lots of guys read fhm, it remains a fact that most men are poor lovers. Hmmz…evidently you guys are not applying what you read. Read more. Now.

After thinking about this somemore, i realised that women’s magazines seldom talk about such issues. It’s always about relationships..how to dump the guy, how to forget the jerk..and blah blah blah. How come there’s nothing about how to make your guy happy in the department downstairs??? There is just limited information about how to turn your guy on. Now don’t get me wrong, im no closet pervert but i ain’t miss holy innocent either.

Or are men just so easy to manipulate that we dun need help? wahahaha.

Sorry, i think being stuck at home because of the exams is driving me mad. I apologise.

Well, well…what do you know? I discovered (yes, i know..im technologically late again) that i can show the world my pictures. So now, there’s a link where you can take a look at my pictures. ;p

Well, well…what do you know? I discovered (yes, i know..im technologically late again) that i can show the world my pictures. So now, there’s a link where you can take a look at my pictures. ;p